The softness is very similar to human. Material and construction is of high quality.
If you want a gentler experience that allows you to edge more, get this white flip hole instead of the black flip hole or the white flip zero. Personally, I prefer this white flip hole for the experience when using and after cleaning. It's easier to dry out in the open (but that might be a slight issue for those who need to keep theirs hidden).
Flip joint seems a tad flimsy
Sensation: 9.5/10 (stimulates all the way through, entry can be tight due to the entrance flaps, just don't jam your third leg in lube up and take ur time)
Ease of use: 9/10 (stand is kinda wobbly, hinges as well but washing is a breeze, looks are discreet, looks like a Bluetooth speaker)
Durability: 7/10 (the outer silicon tore a little from the housing when I penetrated and expanded the toy but it doesn't affect the insides)
Verdict: Buy it, no regrets. However, visual stimulation is needed. Get an onahip if u prefer additional realism